The Queen of Cups represents deep empathy and deeply felt emotions, channeled and transcended by equanimity.
This Queen has achieved mastery in balance between the fourth and sixth chakras. Her heart goes out to all, she feels profoundly and vibrantly, yet she is able to remain focused and calm, during even the most troubling situations and events. She does not get drawn into drama, and yet is able to be fully present to others, offering compassion, kindness and good counsel.
The Lapis Lazuli stone that represents her throne here reminds me of a Shiva Lingam.
I hope to one day achieve the balance which is signified by this card.